Archive for March, 2010

Can life really be without regrets?

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“If only I could turn back time. I would change a few things in my life”. How many people can confidently say they’ve never wished this for themselves at some point in their life?

Can life really be without regrets?

Even as students and practitioners of BaZi, we too face this dilemma once in a while. (Hopefully - less though :-)) That’s what I told a client today during her reading. No one is spared of this agony.

We just have to realise - that some things NEED to happen for better things to come our way. Some lessons we have to learn. Some shit we have to deal with. There’s just no other way.

It’s always painful when this happens. It may take some time for things to heal or get better.

The best way to deal with this is to seek out ‘alternatives’ in our chart to replace the “emptiness” that is present.

Most charts would have options. But if we are too engrossed in the present (pain), the better future cannot unfold.


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Bad Fortune Mole

I was at a dinner function last night, shortly after I landed in KLIA. One of the ladies kept pestering me if she should remove one of her moles from her face.

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Here I am – head spinning still on SF time – trying to intelligently answer this woman if she should remove her mole.

I said Yes. Why not? It’s your mole. You can do whatever you want with it.

Not satisfied with my answer she asked again:

“is this a bad (fortune) mole?” – I said yes.

“will this change my luck?” - I said No.

“Then why do I need to remove it!?” – As I said. It’s your choice. You may look prettier without it. :-)

Moles DO NOT directly affect your luck nor your destiny. In face reading, moles merely INDICATE certain aspects/events/attributes belonging to your life. Strictly speaking, by removing your mole, it does not CHANGE those aspects/events/attributes. It just means it’s now harder for the face reader to see or read you since this piece of information is now unavailable.

What truly changes your life are your decisions, thoughts, actions and wisdom. If you knew what the mole indicates on your face, and subsequently proceed to make changes through your thoughts, action, decision and wisdom – you will change the outcome. You can shape your destiny. With or without the mole.


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